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By Gayle J. Thorn

Wednesday at the Well: 1 Samuel 20:42 - 10 Traits of a Good Friend

Updated: Mar 26, 2020


Bible Verse to Explore: 1 Samuel 20:42

I love lists! Today’s Bible verse seemed to cry out t o me to create a list of 10 traits of a true friend as the Bible describes true friendship.

1 Samuel 20:42 says, "Jonathan said to David, “Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord, . . ." Jonathon was a true friend to David. He was the kind of friend we should emulate. Below is the Bible's definition of a true friend. The Bible says a true friend:

  1. Is honest and faithful (Proverbs 27:6).

  2. Is truthful and tells it like it is (Proverbs 27:6).

  1. Recognizes his own flaws (Romans 2:1-3).

  2. Overlooks your flaws (Proverbs 17:9).

  3. Is wise (Proverbs 13:20).

  4. Stands by you no matter what (Proverbs 17:17).

  5. Is willing to help you and eager to spend time with you (I Timothy 1:16-18).

  6. Shares all he has and all he knows with you (John 15:12-17).

  7. Will give his life for you (John 15:12-17).

  8. Loves you as much as he loves himself (John 15:12-17).

How do your friends measure up?

How do you measure up?

One last thought…Keep the words of Proverbs 17:17 in mind when you are answering the above questions and studying today’s verse. This verse says, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Let’s pray together. Heavenly Father, show us what we need to do to be better friends. In Jesus' name. Amen.

Now, as you click on the logo and download the Inductive Study Guide, remember that Bible verses should be studied in context. That means that we need to read the passage where the verse we are curious about is found to be sure we can accurately understand that verse. In encourage you to do that as you delve into 1 Samuel 20:42 today. Enjoy your time with the Lord!

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